It's Amir's Blog

Tuesday, Jan 22, 2019. At Public Library, Jepara City

When we were born we were being program by our parents.
At that time, we could not choose whether we have rich or poor father.
We count on our parents, in everything.
Our parents tend to restrict of our movement every day. So we were living in a rule which not only made by our parent but also our teacher and our friends.

This is also called ‘ boundary ‘.

We grown up as normal children by going with direction which inside or outside step up into our life.
For example, we got 20s. When we look at the mirror and ask ‘ who we are’. Most people said based on age, profession, and ethnic gender. This is the way people describe others.

That is why We need to find either our true personality or our authenticity.

From 20s, we were gradually getting older. Day by day, we reached one point which we have dreams.
We will probably work to get what we want, which is like our future dreams, try get closer from those.
In addition, we were willing to work on uncomfortable situation, because there is no miracle. We hope that one day we would get abundance and life flourish.
However, we try to break it up the limitation that we have and hope to get succeed.

In fact, we tend to work to hard and push to far. but it is also something we can control to enhance our proper behavior.

1. Association
   Our relationship with others. Do not only thing yourself, you should think people around you
2. Abundance
   Anything that we have accordance to how wealth we are
3. Attention
   Our thought in general. for example, if you do not care about your body, then it will not care about you
4. Attitude
   This is how we behave in any circumtance

To understand the 4 ‘s’, we need to look backward, seeking awareness.
Once we realize we don’t have all of that and find out our shoes, we will understand ‘ who we are ‘ and ‘ where we want to go’.
We then encounter Flash back if it is necessary, ‘ we wonder do i need to change anything or not ‘

Sad thing is, most of us end up thinking that money is everything. The true is, money is not. It is just a mental state.
A lot of people think if they had plenty of money they were happy. To be honest, this is completely wrong.
This is also related with success was not about the money, the fame, or a big house. It is about becoming the best version of yourself. You will be happy if you arrive at this position.

All of the talk above, we have to leave our negative thinking. To do this we can be able to maintain some easy steps, such as: close your eyes, listen music, do yoga, and meditation. Question your thought and belief, seek and discover yourself through those easy steps.
When you feel that you can be able to leave your negative thinking and you will find your live has meaning, so you will take better care of yourself.
In the end, you will probably find it as your habit. You will be strong inside as well as outside.

So now we can acheive our authenticity, more flow. Because live is worth to living.

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